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Posted Aug. 20 at 5:35 p.m. Greetings, public transit peeps. You may already be underway on your commutes home, but I just had to share this delightful note I received from a rider sick of "cellphone nation." I had to censor a bit of salty language with well-placed "bleeps," but you get the idea. And who can resist a guy who begins his note with Jimminy Crickets? Check him out: "Jimminy Crickets. Where's that canned message about not annoying your fellow passengers with your cellphone when you really need to hear it? I had an encounter with The Cellphone Nation on the way home after work just now. 7:00 at night. I transfer onto my 146 express bus, which zips me rapidly home along the lakefront. Last stop before we get onto LSD. Well-dressed, well-coiffured, middle-aged woman gets on. Sits down beside me. Jewelery on her fingers. A couple of shopping bags from the tony stores on that stretch of Michigan. She settles herself, flips open her cellphone, dials somebody and starts in on what clearly is going to be a trip-long conversation. Beginning with what the cosmetics counter had and didn't have. What stores she was in, etc. Obvioiusly, in her mind, she was "home for the day" and was putting her feet up and unwinding. Well, I had been enjoying the quiet at the end of a long day. So I said "Excuse me," and stood up, heading for the back of the bus and a quieter seat. As I squeezed past her, she said, "Your stop?" Did I do the smart thing and stay silent, or say "Yes."? No. In a flash I decided to use it as a teaching moment, and I said, in a voice for her and not the people around us, "I'm just going to find a seat where there's not a cellphone conversation." |
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Kudos to the Cellphone Nation writer. Although it seems as if his message fell on deaf ears, it didn't. Several people heard his message, and maybe the cell phone talker got it too but simply resorted to a quick defense.
Societal pressure has to begin someplace. Little vignettes like this is how it all starts.
Kudos for your effort, 146 rider! Would that more of us had the courage to speak up as you did. Too bad these days the "bleep you" attitude is so pervasive. I've lately taken the approach -- and this is the opposite of courage -- that "you can't say anything" about anything anymore on public transit and just have to let everything happen without comment, because you get slammed with a bleep-you or worse. What I need is a tougher skin to ignore the backlash. More and more people are self-absorbed pigs these days and need to hear about it.
Posted by: EdgewaterScott | Aug 21, 2008 9:29:32 AMSome people, like this one and the people who leave items on an empty seat next to them on a crowded bus, are just only concerned about themselves and too ignorant to behave in a normal manner with other people in society. Courteous is not a word they will ever learn. Some of these people treat the CTA as their own living room sofa, but it's called "public" transportation, so keep the rude, selfish attitude in your own home.
Posted by: m2 | Aug 24, 2008 12:35:15 AMDang, I thought this was going to be about the loud talker on my #148 the other night, the one night when I didn't have my ipod with me. Not only was the girl speaking loudly, but because all of her words sounded like one big long, drawn out word, as there was no correct annunciation for each word, the person on the other end kept asking "what?" She then repeated each sentence at least 3 times! By the time she hung up, everyone in the extended part of the bus, was well aware she couldn't hang out because she had final tests the next day (her words, not mine, at least, I think that's what she said). Though what she could be studying without knowing how to even speak correctly, was beyond me. I was just grateful for the silence that followed once she said good-bye, for the third time.
Posted by: Angie B. | Aug 26, 2008 3:51:13 PMAngie B., maybe we need to start a citywide "third time's a charm" movement: what happens is that if someone's on a cellphone on public transit, if they keep repeating themselves, the third time they say a word or phrase, everyone around them gets to join in, in chorus: "Yeah, I'm on the Red Line...I said I'm on the Red Line..." [Here we go! All together now:] "I'M ON THE RED LINE!"
Posted by: EdgewaterScott | Aug 27, 2008 1:14:24 PM


